When trying to build relationships with students, discipline can get in the way. Behavior programs or clip charts negate any positives you are doing in your classroom. When you pass through the halls at school and hear “Pull a red ticket” or “You’re on yellow now” or “You lost a point on Dojo” you can bet that student forgot every good thing that happened that day. Hear it enough and it truly affects a child’s self-esteem. So many times the kids that have trouble are truly not able to control their behavior. After 23 years of teaching I am convinced that negative consequences, timeouts, and punishment just make bad behavior worse.
where you can’t improve. So I knew if he understood, surely our students without a developmental disability did, too. What good does it do to punish a child who literally hasn’t yet acquired the brain functions required to control his or her behavior? {and why does the entire class need to know? Even if you are private, clip charts are there for everyone to see.} How is that helping them? It is sacrifice long-term goals (student behavior
improving for good) for short-term gain—momentary peace in the classroom.
In my class I have guidelines for student behavior. They are:
solve. I try to get to the bottom of what happened, what the student was feeling, and why they were feeling that
way. I teach 6 year olds, so it’s not always possible for them to do and sometimes I need to look for patterns in behavior. Next, we brainstorm alternative behaviors for the circumstance.
We discuss outcomes of the alternative behaviors and then the child will pick one or two to try. I try to target when these behaviors are most likely to happen and remind the student in private to try the alternatives if they feel that way again. This is a process, but it works. We celebrate victories and discuss and brainstorm again if the disruptive/negative behavior shows up.
What are your thoughts? I would love to hear them. Please comment and let me know!